I love it.

i’m watching the today show right now and they have a lady from redbook talking about “spicing up your marriage.” her first suggestion has to do with eating wacky/zany meals: “…the rules are off: if you want brownies for breakfast, go for it. if you want waffles for dinner, go for it!” she’s very big on the phrase “the rules are off.” she goes on on to recommend playing “board games with an adult twist…wager whatever you want — chores, a foot rub, anything.”

also, fyi:
http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/womans_sexual_turnons/index.php
(i really like the little bits of description of each fantasy. (“”It’s a guide to giving oral sex so well that your partner will insist on cooking you blueberry pancakes the next morning.”). i’ve been watching a soap opera lately and the quality of the writing in this piece reminds me of when the directors of soap operas get a chance to shoot something more complex and challenging than the standard establishing-close-up-reverse dialogue stuff and you can tell that they’re so excited about it but also that they aren’t quite good at it (they are, after all, soap opera directors) so it’s a little adorably embarrassing. soap opera writers are the same way — they seem really eager to drop in art and literature allusions whenever possible. on the soap i watch, there was recently a photo shoot for this fashion magazine and there were so many references to it being a recreation of this warhol-basquiat boxing photo that it became tiresome.)
http://jezebel.com/5133406/woman-pens-un+universal-list-of-universal-female-fantasies